Making Your Child A Part Of The Home Schooling Process

There are a myriad of different reasons why people choose to homeschool their children: there is the economic benefit of avoiding high private school fees; there is the convenience of

scheduling schooling around other family activities etc.

One of the most important benefits of home schooling is the flexibility with which you can tailor your child's education. It is a well

known fact that every individual has individual needs, and home schooling allows you to create a learning environment that suits your child particularly.

When you undergo home schooling, it is important that you have a clear curriculum and mind

and a plan to execute it. But within that plan, you should understand that you have a

tremendous amount of flexibility: there are many different ways that a child can learn something,

and many different things to learn in a given subject.

One of the best ways that you can ensure a high level of learning retention is to encourage your

child to take a personal interest in his or her education. Although this may seem obvious, many

people growing up who went though a traditional school system will probably agree that their

education was received in an authoritative way: schooling and your education was something

that was done to you, not with you.

When home schooling, however, you can take advantage of the almost unlimited flexibility at

your disposal and let your child take a more active role. While you can't, obviously, let your child

do whatever he or she wants education-wise, you should always explain to him or her a given

education plan, and see what he thinks.

For example, when you start your school day, outline the plan for the day with your child. Depending on his or her age you can also explain the reasoning behind the plan. If there are any things the child seems averse to doing, try and take them seriously. You should not, of course, avoid certain subjects or activities simply because your child doesn't like them. You should, however, ask your child why he or she doesn't like something in the day's plan, and to suggest alternatives. In many cases you will be pleasantly surprised by what your child comes up with, and be able to incorporate it into the day's work. As much as possible, you should have a list of alternatives in mind for assigned activities. The idea is to try and think of alternative activities that accomplish the same task. If your child protests against a certain exercise, then, you can offer them an alternative. This can be extremely effective in getting your children to learn material that they dislike.

Oftentimes the child simply has to feel that he or she is more in control of the situation to enjoy

it. Even though you are ultimately controlling your child's education, by granting them small

allowances and choices, while still sticking with the larger picture, everybody wins: your child

feels he is doing what he wants to do, and you are still teaching your child what you want him to

learn.